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ABSURD EGO IDEAS
(ideas that keep the ego parasite in control and sabotage your life)
THE FIX IS TO ABANDON ALL SELF CRITICISM, JUDGING, “GUILTING”,
FEELINGS THAT I AM NOT OK, OR THAT THERE IS SOMETHING WRONG WITH ME.
Along with clearing all the
illusions below.
THE EGO
CREATES ILLUSIONS THAT TRICK US INTO BELIEVING:
That we need to judge as bad, guilt, shame, disapprove, demean or ourselves for any reason especially to make us a better person, improve our life, or punish ourselves so we won't do it again.
That I need to judge myself as bad first in order to fix a mistake or something that did not turn out as planned or intended. (judging me as bad destroys my self worth or valuableness which cripples my ability to make decisions, take action and destroys my motivation or desire to do anything often because I may feel that any new attempt will fail too.)
That accepting myself is unsafe so I constantly need external acceptance for who i am and what I am doing and sex is the strongest form of acceptance
The whole concept of NOT accepting yourself 'as is' is absurd. Ask yourself what good does it do, what productive result does it create [btw: negative motivation does not work very well if at all], what does it actually create? [it is actually a long list, all negative, like opens the door to ego resistance, destroys your self worth, feeds ' I don't deserve', makes life painful-difficult-no fun-and cripples our ability to use the law of attraction to create what we want.
Often people wait for another person to accept them before they allow themselves to accept themselves. This is often why people stay in or get relationships, to make them feel valuable, worthy, etc.
That love and acceptance come from outside us. This is simply not true because we are deciding who needs to say/do what for us to feel love or acceptance. Which means we are deciding when and how we feel acceptance and or love while pretending it comes from them. If this doesn't make sense your ego is clouding your mind to protect itself. it probably puts you to sleep every time you get close to seeing it or listening to someone who is trying to tell you about your ego or making their words sound like they are judging you so you will stop listening. It will usually make you sick to keep you from reading an enlightening book or going to an enlightening seminar.
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The ego is a saboteur masquerading as your friend and protector but it is actually causing/creating most of your problems and the drama in your life which it needs to survive. It will quickly sacrifice your health, happiness, self-worth, money, relationship, and even you to insure it will survive. It does not usually realize if you die it dies too. All suicides are caused/created by the ego.
It uses illusions to confuse us and then tells which way it wants us to go so it will remain in control at all times. It thinks it and you are unsafe if it is not in control and it will do literally anything to remain in control including making you a mental case, sick, deep depression, drug/alcohol addiction, etc.