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THOUGHT MANAGEMENT

DISCOVER THE PLEASURE OF INWARD HARMONY THAT LEADS TO SUCCESS/HAPPINESS IN YOUR OUTER (PHYSICAL) LIFE

Spirituality, Consciousness, Transformation, Thought Mgt. are Ego/Mind Training/Taming, Mindfullness
Can cure (catholic) guilt, often in one session

WHAT CAUSES PAIN, SUFFERING? OR WHAT IS SPIRITUALITY, CONSCIOUSNESS ABOUT

Living in the physical world we humans, especially those of us in the western world generally believe that how we feel, even our decisions and what our life is about is a result of what happens in the outside world, our outer reality. In other words your mate, boss or parents are why your life isn't working, why you feel bad or are unhappy; or the people, places and things in your physical world are doing it to you, making you unhappy, causing your pain and suffering and none of it is your responsibility or has anything to do with the decisions you make on a minute by minute basis

Consciousness/spirituality comes from the perspective that how you feel/what happens to you is NOT a result of the world outside your body but rather that it is the result of something you are doing inside your body/mind/spirit in your inner world. Something you are doing in your mind, thinking, beliefs, thoughts, emotions, and memories that are causing the problems and then you mistakenly blame your suffering on what is outside of you or the persons(s) in front of you because you have been taught to do so

For example: if you are actively resisting anything that somebody else is doing it is the resistance that makes you feel “bad" NOT what they are doing, but then you blame the pain caused by resisting/judging on them which creates an illusion that they are doing something to you

But in fact it is you making you feel bad because they can't get inside your body to make you feel bad. It is actually you deciding to resist what they are doing that makes you feel bad or makes you suffer . But our culture has been teaching this untruth for so long it has become a deep habit. The deep habits make it look like you don't have a choice and that “they” are doing something to you

CONSCIOUSNESS COMES FROM THE PERSPECTIVE THAT IF YOU CHANGE WHAT YOU ARE THINKING, BELIEVING, ETC. WHAT IS GOING ON IN YOUR INNER REALITY/HEAD THAT WILL CHANGE HOW YOU FEEL, INCLUDING CHANGING YOUR ENERGY, MOTIVATION, PERSPECTIVE, HEALTH, ETC.

The conversation/thoughts going on in your head changes, colors, or may even modify what you feel or think about what is going on in physical reality or your imagined reality. Judging or resisting what another or you is doing causes suffering but usually we erroneously blame our suffering on them or what they are doing/not doing. But your pain/suffering is actually coming from your decision to resist or judge what is going on. You can STOP your suffering /pain by choosing to accept what is going on & stop judging or resisting it. Say " it doesn't matter" over & over.

Judging yourself or another is a decision that causes pain & has no productive result, it only/always causes suffering, anger, hopelessness, etc. Judging should be looked at as an addiction and handled like one. It can also kill you ie may cause cancer, dis-ease, etc.

In one to three sessions I can show you the principles of consciousness and how to begin to apply them to you and your life. This isn't about do this and wait forever for results. This is about applying these principles and you will feel differently right away. It doesn't stop there but you will feel enough of a change to realize that it works. You will realize that life didn't work because you were trying to change them or the world, which you can't do, instead of changing how you think about the them/the world and yourself, which you can do. Spirituality, consciousness really is as close to the miracle cure as we can get.

CHANGE HOW AND WHAT YOU THINK AND YOUR LIFE WILL CHANGE QUICKLY

Life can be lived in two modes

EXPERIENCING THE PRESENT MOMENT/WHAT IS GOING ON RIGHT NOW

This is usually accomplished with a quiet mind where there is no attempt to judge, resist, analyze or want it differently.

This comes from a point of view of choice and acceptance of what is going on

yes you can intend to have it different next time but only by accepting the way it is now. [in fact it is much more difficult to change if you don't first accept it.]

MENTALLY THINKING ABOUT THE PRESENT MOMENT

this is what you/your ego thinks about what is going on
this is usually in the form of judging it, guilt them/you, resisting it, analyzing it, or complaining about it.
But mostly it is about thinking keeps you from being in the present moment because you are a little or a lot occupied with your mind. Therefore missing much of what is actually going on in the present moment. You hear less, feel less because thinking competes with your other senses. You can only do one at a time and yes I know you think you can do more - I did too initially

THE EGO WILL DO ANYTHING IT CAN TO GET AND HOLD YOUR ATTENTION, INCLUDING SABOTAGING YOUR HAPPINESS, PLEASURE AND/OR EVEN YOUR DEATH [it doesn't realize it two is mortal and it is]

You have an ego chatter mind and you are not your ego chatter mind
The problem is not that we have an ego chatter mind, the problem is we are all identified with it, we believe it is us, who we are.
Which creates a false reality, mentally which we assume is the same as everyone else but its not. Most of us have our own private personal reality that we live in. Usually wondering why everyone is reacting differently to what is going on.
Once you discover you are distracted by/focused on your ego/mind and/or your false reality you can expand your awareness and see the bigger picture.

The real you is your conscious awareness which is aware of itself and the ego/ mind. This facilitates seeing that you have an ego/mind and you are not your ego/mind. This is a profound shift.

It can be compared to being where all you can see is trees, then moving up into a fire tower so you can see that you are in a forest.
Once you discover for yourself that you have thoughts in your head and they are not YOUR thoughts your perception of yourself and the world can change rapidly, moving you toward living in the moment.
Where life becomes real, exciting and you see that your purpose is about manifesting your uniqueness so u can be a functional, equal being, part of the cosmos.

MIND TRAINING
SEX COACHING
MIND TRAINING
Can show you how the ego is like a virus, it infects the mind and rewrites it natural functions. It blocks our natural, built-in support system that could give us all the guidance and information we need to make correct decisions and have a wonderful life.

Most people assume that what makes life difficult or makes us unhappy is what we have or don't have but it is actually what we THINK about what we have or don't have that makes us unhappy or discontent.

IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT-
YOUR EGO DID IT

MIND TRAINING starts with showing you how the ego is in CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE. Much of the pain, disappointment, guilt, fear, self hate, SABOTAGE that you feel is being triggered by the ego. We believe that it is the ego's job to protect us but in doing so it often sacrifices our happiness, love, health, sexual pleasure and wealth. Let PRACTICAL ENLIGHTENMENT show you how to regain authority and control over your life and how to manage your ego so it does not ruin/run your life.

Coaching is available one on one, in person in Palm Springs, ca; online video conference; or telephone

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GUILT, SHAME, REMORSE, BEING JUDGMENTAL, CHILDHOOD TRAUMAS, & FEAR BLOCK SEXUAL DESIRE, ENJOYMENT, ERECTION & ORGASM
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Sexual desire, function and enjoyment are normal , built-in to your body. When sex isn't working or isn't desirable it usually means that your mind or ego are blocking, or resisting sex.

Since we can't see the mind or ego doing any this we blame our dysfunction or lack of desire on other things like: age, drugs, food, your partner just doesn't turn you on any more, fear of disease, the way our body looks or rejection.

In a SEX COACHING SESSION, guided by my intuition and my Guides, we discover your blocks to sex, sexuality, enjoyment, dysfunction, etc. Then I guide you through the process of acknowledging and releasing them. You will actually feel the blocks as we discover and you release them, it's not all smoke and mirrors.

Coaching is available one on one, in person in Palm Springs, ca; online video conference; cd-rom/online; or telephone

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PRACTICAL ENLIGHTENMENT CD/ONLINE IS available NOW click here STORE

MIND TRAINING
AND
SPIRITUAL LIFE COACHING

During a session I rely on my empathic and intuitive abilities and my 25 years of experience to see beyond what you are saying or not saying and beyond the circumstances of events to get to the truth of the matter.

The ego is like a virus, it infects the mind and rewrites it natural functions. It blocks our natural, built-in support system that could give us all the guidance and information we need to make correct decisions and have a wonderful life.

I will show you

The difference between the real conscious you and the ego which is your false self
Whenever you think about something it takes your focus out of the present moment and into the past. So your mind is on the past and your eyes see the present since most people don't realize this, it usually creates problems and confusion
The past is being overlay-ed onto the present which confuses you as to what is going on right now so you make wrong decisions which usually create more problems
This is a glimpse of how the almost invisible ego/mind can cause problems that we usually attribute [blame] on others. But we do not usually suspect the real cause of the problems is actually being able to think about the past and be in/see the present.

The process begins with

The coach explaining the confidentially and non- judgmental nature of the coaching space which is a non-confrontational, interactive, conversation

The client talking about his/her issue(s) or intention for the work.

Overview of the spiritual principles that lead to an enlightened perspective that explain how how life works (our society has taught us many untruths and FALSE BELIEFS about how life works which are actually the source of most of our problems)

The first principle is how your mind works and your relationship with it [not just lecture]

The second is examining your relationship to and the VALIDITY of your emotions, memories and beliefs

We examine the framework that creates your will power which is self-acceptance and self-love

Understanding the truth about resistance and the “I don't want to's ”

We look for the ego/mind blocks that cause difficulties in all the different areas of your life.

We look at the consequences of judging, guilt, and fear

Self empowerment is about how responsibility can give you [back] power and authority over your life

Relationships

The law of attraction and manifesting

Deciding what you really want

Deciding what to do with the rest of your life

and much more

TESTIMONIAL: "The work I did with Ross was instrumental to my awareness, health, and well being, in fact it was revolutionary to the shifting of my life paradigm.
After years of healing work that was at times stagnant, his ability to help me synthesize concepts of compassion, self worth, and being stuck unconsciously in the past has given my life a presence that keeps me in the present." All the best to you Ross, Dr.Elspeth S. 5-2-07

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