SOME VERY BRIEF DEFINITIONS FROM THE SPIRITUAL OR CONSCIOUS PERSPECTIVE
DOUBT - REJECTION - ADDICTION - MOTIVATION - BE RIGHT - RESISTANCE - SHAME - DON'T DESERVE - GUILT - VICTIM - SEX - LOVE - LIVING IN THE - PRESENT - HAPPINESS - SPIRITUALITY
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VICTIM is an act a personality that you and your ego has decided is the best way for you to get what you want. Victim give you something to talk about , something to get peoples attention with. It is how you get what you want by controlling an manipulating other people to get what you want. Unfortunately victims seldom allow themselves to enjoy what they have, they is no satisfaction because that would blow their whole act/cover some victims are so into their act that they do not see they are consciously manipulating their reality and those around them to get what they want but they are also manipulating themselves so they cannot even enjoy what they have already.
ADDICTION is first about trusting guilt, guilt causes addiction. Guilt destroys your will power and self-worth which makes you powerless to say no to the alcohol or drugs, etc. All guilt is self-sabotage. All guilt causes dis-ease, pain and cancer. Guilt has no/none/zero productive value nor does it keep you from running amuck, it is if fact what causes you to have a miserable life. Guilt is the worst addiction and it is lethal, it can kill.
BE RIGHT [UNWILLING TO BE WRONG] is a sticky tricky mental point of view usually caused by judging yourself to be bad/wrong/guilty and needing to disprove that belief by making someone else wrong. Which you falsely believe makes you right. the whole thing is a shame that costs you friends, lovers, mates, jobs and generally crates a lot of pain and suffering in your life. The cure for this ugly behavior is to decide to love, accept and value you as you are right now-period. Needing to be right is a symptom that you believe there is something wrong with you and you need to disprove that by being right which you mistakenly believe can only be done if you make someone else wrong. It is also a very costly addiction that often is responsible for year of pain, suffering and remorse. Being right is totally self sabotage.
DOUBT looka/feels safe, doubt is ‘nothing ventured nothing gained’, trusting doubt is related to trusting fear neither one is your friend, they are both self-sabotage. “doubt has ruined countless plans, ideas, etc… Murray”. Doubt pretends to save you from failure but failure is a hoax there is no failure there is only quitting or never starting. Edison…. Failure is really it didn’t work that time so try again again and again until u get it right all successful inventions and people are as a result of this. doubt is an unwillingness to feel fear, take risks, and a fear of change. Without these things/willingness you can never be successful, never get what you want. Your belief/trust in it makes it powerful and true for you.
GUILT is self-sabotage/hoax that you believe you cannot live without. Guilt doesn’t work because negatie motivation cant work for very long and it has huge detrimental side effects. Guilt creates bigger problem lie depression and dis-ease and cancer.
You do not need guilt to run/manage your life. And without it you will not run amuck. Guilt only weakens you it never stops you from doing something and it rips off your satisfaction which means you have to repeat what you just did in an attempt to get some satisfaction. When you give up guilt you will thrive, you will be more healthy, happy and creative, more loving and accepting, more real. Sacrifice guilt and suffering not happiness and joy and satisfaction.
SOURCE OF HAPPINESS The source of happiness is not some person, place or thing in the physical universe. The source of happiness does not come form outside of us. Happiness is a condition or experience that shows up when you are living in the present moment with total acceptance of now, of reality exactly the way it is, now, now, now. To maintain living in the moment you will probably need mediation , exercise, proper foods, and a general peace of mind. Happiness, joy, and contentment are not things they are a ‘come from’, a background, part of who you are not what you have or don’t have. And they have nothing to do with money, position, power, sex, relationships or luck. You must actively create the conditions for happiness to show up into. you ,must create the space for happiness to manifest in your life. It is largely dependant on accepting yourself totally and accepting the world as it is right now, now, now.
LIVING IN THE NOW/MOMENT// SEXING IN THE NOW Living in the present moment is our first purpose of life. We have to live in the moment to the best of our ability to even discover what our life purpose is. living in the moment feels so good it is its own reward. In other words it feels so good you don’t have to get sex or get love or get a mate or get a new car… you already feel great, terrific, alive, excited about life and involved in the beauty of life. Living in the present is all that exists because the past is gone, gone, gone. It only exists in your memories, in your mind, and in our memories of feelings. Living in the past is usually a joyless experience that lacks aliveness, excitement and happiness. The past is gone, the future does not yet exist. Therefore, pretending you can have feelings, fears etc from the future is simply not true, a hoax perpetrated by your ego mind. True love can only exist in the present moment, never in the past or future. Your body is always in the present but your attention is usually on your mind which is NEVER in the present moment. Your mind is always in the past and is capable of mocking up some fantasy future and even attaching memories feelings to it from the past so you think or assume this future event is real because it feels real but it is all a hoax. [see Living in he moment 10 week courses on cd-rom / in person, coaching telephone or internet.]
LOVE this is one of our most misunderstood words. Other languages have many words for the different types of love but we only have one which is where some of the misunderstanding comes from. Ego love or conditional love is what most people assume love is. This type of love is fickle, selfish, always changing and is the love that most people are familiar with. But it is actually not love.
True love is unconditional love and it has no conditions, never changes, does not go away when you are no longer with them, this is what family love is supposed to be about but seldom is. True unconditional love comes from inside us, from our consciousness or spirit, soul, or essence. But most people don’t know that so it only gets turned on when there is a desired love object. Love cannot be stored up it can only be experienced when you are ‘giving’ it to another, intending it to another and/or yourself.
NO MOTIVATION is about no hope, no help, cant have what you want, or judging yourself as bad or wrong or unworthy. Guilt is about living in the past, it can only occur in the past, in your mind, there is no guilt in the present moment, now. The present moment which is right now right now is always fresh new full of hope and promise, empowerment and contentment or joy.
NOT DESERVE is combo of guilt, judgment, shame that you believe to be true but it is all a lie/hoax. You have been listening and trusting to people that don’t not love you unconditionally or have your best interests at heart. Or they are jealous of you. You are whole complete and perfect and you just forgot again. You never did anything wrong.
REJECTION is a hoax because it does not come from them it comes from inside you and you can recognize that and pull its teeth by simply not believing it, not buying it, by taking responsibility for crating it and which gives you the power to dissolve it, and ignore it. Fearing rejection is yet another side of unwilling to take risks because you assume fear is real, that failure is real which they are NOT. They are all in your mind. You can feel fear and rejection but it all starts in your mind, is triggered by your mind and then you pretend it is real, current, true and relative. Your belief/trust in it makes it powerful.
RESISTANCE/resisting is a way many people define themselves. Resistance originates when we are children and have no power over our life. We cant tell our parents no so we do what they ask while resisting it. What most people do not see is that resistance is another mental or mind trick. Resistance is using your mind to resist what your body is doing. That is you resisting you but you are pretending it is you resisting them. Resisting what you are doing TAKES TWICE AS MUCH ENERGY as just doing it with out resistance. Resistance also makes yo accident prone and takes away your smile. Resisting your life as an adult is a bad joke on you. **dishes……………..Resistance is 100 % ego, 100% self-sabotage, !00% non productive and keeps you out of the present moment where joy and contentment can only be found.
SEX appears to be a very complicated issue. This is because we attach a lot of things to sex which are not inherently part of sex. For example we assume sex means love, or acceptance, or I am ok, or I am lovable, etc. The purpose of sex that is often assumed in the western world is ejaculation which is usually accompanied by an orgasm. What many people don’t realize is orgasm is actually a direct experience of our Self, soul, essence, spirit, life force or higher power. Orgasm is actually the spiritual component of sex which is often overlooked and seldom understood. Tantra sex focuses on orgasm without ejaculation and also considers orgasm Divine communion. Since we are body mind and spirit western sex focus on body and mind leaving out the spirit. When you put this back in you get a much more fulfilling experience and may see what you have been missing. The deep satisfaction of orgasmic sex is sweet and fires an inner glow and our heart that is very satisfying in a way nothing else is. it is beyond what the body of the other person looks like, beyond who you are with, completely non-mental and beyond words.
SHAME is insidious, and it causes dis-ease and cancer. It is based on a belief from someone outside or your ego that convinced you that you did something wrong, bad, or unforgivable. That person or your ego did not have your best interests at heart. They may have even been jealous of you. what makes shame different is that
· You trust it
· You don’t want to see it
· You don’t want to fix it because then you have to look at it and that is too painful
So it sits there fermenting in the back of your mind just out of sight or out of your awareness. It grows like a cancer, it is malignant, it will make you sick, poison your mind and most likely cause cancer. Truly I believe this is one of the causes of cancer. Shame has no productive or redeeming qualities, if you suspect you have some get help but get rid of it ASAP or it may kill you. yes it is worse then a drug, alcohol or even cigarette addiction.
SPIRITUALITY is pertaining to the non-physical universe, the not yet visible universe. We usually cant see our spiritual self so many people assume it does not actually exist. Your spirit is an energy ‘field’ in which it created your body.. depending on your level of consciousness it can extend a few inches or few feet outside your body. That’s is why we get uncomfortable when some people get too close, our energy fields touch or overlap and we sense this even thought we are unaware of it cause Each of us has an immortal spirit / conscious awareness that will exit the body when the time comes. There is very little personality in the spirit but often there are traits that can be recognized or felt. When your body dies you, your consciousness will be ‘standing’ beside the body looking at it wondering what just happened if you have not prepared yourself for this experience. Where the spirit/ consciousness goes after it exists the body is beyond the scope of this article. But how you die can have a huge influence on where and how you go next and your next life. It doesn’t matter whether you believe in reincarnation or not, it will happen to you. If you prepare/study and after you die nothing happens, nothing is lost but if this is all true and you don’t prepare, you have a shock coming the results of which you might have to live with for another lifetime…