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Happiness, love, success, relationship, orgasms, confidence, health and wealth are all learnable skills and are a result of mastering your mind, emotions and feelings
HOW TO ‘THINK PERFECT’ AND MASTER YOUR MIND AND LIFE
To THINK PERFECT one declares the present moment ok or perfect so that they can then take their attention off the past [anything before right now, right now…] and thereby focus all their energy/attention on creating what they want next. If one is busy spending energy judging, resisting or complaining about the past you have no energy left to actually change it. When you are stuck in the past nothing changes and all you get is pain, suffering, and dis-ease.
PHYSICAL REALITY AS IT APPEARS RIGHT NOW IS FINISHED.
It was created by what we did before now. Trying to change physical reality is just moving the furniture around so it looks different but does not create actual change. The only thing that can be changed is what is next, what is not yet created or the future. The real secret is staying focused in the now while being aware of the direction you want to go. Most people focus on the future goal at the expense of the present moment which doesn’t work because the future does not exist. They are living in a false future reality and are therefore non-productive. Change can only be accomplished in the present moment not in the fantasy future. Happiness, love, satisfaction, fulfillment, excitement, health and wealth are only available in the present moment. Because that is all that exists, the past is only a memory, the future does not exist, now is all that really, actually exists.
Another aspect of declaring physical reality PERFECT is personal contentment and satisfaction.
Since you created this moment ‘as is’ by your intentions, thoughts, words, and actions by declaring it less then ok or perfect you demean yourself/you. And imply or decide that you have made a mistake and this is not what you want. But in truth you did create it this way because it is the way it is! You are the only one making the decisions that create and manage your life, whether you realize it or not. Every time you demean, judge, guilt, etc. yourself it activates your ego pulls you out of the present moment which ALWAYS results in suffering and/or pain. By DECIDING the present is perfect you short circuit all of this ego activity. Resisting physical reality is the same as resisting the turning of the earth, it is ludicrous and a total waste of time and energy.
CHOOSE/ACCEPT NOW ‘AS IS’ THEN YOU CAN ENJOY IT AND PLAN WHAT YOU WANT NEXT
What your ego mind thinks ABOUT physical reality [including you] is very, very UNIMPORTANT and pulls you out of present time. Which means it is a waste of time and energy and nothing more than a MEANINGLESS DISTRACTION. Living authentically in the present moment is a large part of MASTERING YOUR MIND AND BEING HUMAN.
Blame is mental and is another ego trick to try and get you to deny responsibility for creating the present reality ‘as is’. Blame has many negative repercussions all of which pull you out of the present moment yet again. Ultimately taking 100% responsibility for your life including your feelings is totally empowering and deliciously freeing.
Many people do not realize it but nobody can get inside your body/mind to make you feel anything good or bad. Just as nobody can judge or ridicule you unless you accept their statements as true or valid and agree with them in your mind. We have so many DEEP HABITS around this that is seems automatic and out of our control but it is not. [See MINDMASTER, etc books for further clarification they are in the store].
IN LIFE ARE YOU A VICTIM OR A DESIGNER?
- A victim believes he/she is at the effect of life and does not see that his or her actions, words, beliefs, intentions and thoughts are actually creating all of their life.
- The victim sees life as a chore or task to be endured until the ‘right job' or ‘right’ relationship shows up to make them happy.
- A designer lives consciously in the present moment carefully choosing his or her her thoughts, actions, beliefs and intentions thereby consciously creating his or her life.
- The designer also sees that life is a beautiful journey not a means to an end and that each minute is precious.
Learn to design your life using
THE LAW OF ATTRACTION:
Think your way to a new life
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THE PURPOSE OF BEING CONSCIOUS, MORE AWARE IS TO MAKE YOUR LIFE EASIER, HAPPIER, MORE PRODUCTIVE AND SATISFYING.
Our classes and seminars will guide you into a new way to think which well reveal a new perspective, one that may have always been there but you didn’t see before
This fresh new perspective will uncover many solutions to old unsolvable problems. This new perspective will require determination on your part to make it work but it will actually seem like less work, less effort, and it will make life much easier.
In making your life easier you will become a happier person and as a result become more productive, easier to get along with. You will see that by taking responsibility [without guilt] for your life you gain more power than pretending you are not responsible, not in control, not powerful.
This increased feeling of power will increase your sense of self worth which will in turn radiate out into your life and create many changes, effortlessly. This is not the old method of trying to force yourself to change which never worked, at least not for long. Rather this is a new indirect method of change whereby you change where you come from, and how you see yourself. This “new you” will make different decisions, react to the situations in your life in a different way and have different needs which will create new goals, perhaps even a new direction in your life.
But most important is it will be your life, you will be in control, you will be making the decisions, and running the ship. Instead of being tossed about by the winds of chance and the whims of others moods or needs.
TESTIMONIAL: "The work I did with Ross was instrumental to my awareness, health, and well being, in fact it was revolutionary to the shifting of my life paradigm.
After years of healing work that was at times stagnant, his ability to help me synthesize concepts of compassion, self worth, and being stuck unconsciously in the past has given my life a presence that keeps me in the present." All the best to you Ross, Dr.Elspeth S. 5-2-07