BE A TRAIL BLAZER FOR THE NEW SEXUAL FRONTIER
"...THAT MEANS THAT ORGASMIC SEX IS A SPIRITUAL EXPERIENCE. Which can also lead us to see beyond our physical mind and body. To realize that orgasm is an experience of the Divine in each of us..."
The Sexual Frontier is being willing to give up all your old beliefs, fears, judgments, and guilt about sex being dirty, bad or shameful.
And replace it with respect, gratefulness, and awe about the deep beauty and sensuousness of this glorious gift that has been so completely misunderstood and misrepresented.
Sex is a simple physical act but like the Christmas tree it has been overburdened with many meanings that have nothing to do with sex. Lets say the green Christmas tree is sex then it is decorated with ornaments like: sex means love; sex means you accept me; sex means I am special; sex means you have deep feelings for me; sex means you will only love me; sex means I am ok, etc., etc., etc,
Sex is loving when loving people have it. The love does not come from the sex it comes from inside each person and is shared through the sexual experience. You can get sex but you can't get true love/unconditional love because it comes from inside us, from our spirit. it also can't come form the mind. The mind only knows conditional love, which is definitely not love but rather more like a complicated form of manipulation, control, illusion and projections.
As long as we limit ourselves to our physical realty, to our body and our thinking mind we will not experience orgasmic sexual sensuality. A 'western sex' ejaculation is made up of fluid ejaculation and usually an orgasm. The orgasm is usually only a few seconds or may not even happen at all. An orgasm is the label for your mind stopping [no thought] which gives you a direct experience of your spirit, self, soul or essence. This can also be felt in deep meditation but does not necessarily have the sexual connotations because the genitals are not involved.
THE MEANS THAT ORGASMIC SEX IS A SPIRITUAL EXPERIENCE. yy
Which can also lead us to see beyond our physical mind and body. yyy To realize that orgasm is an experience of the Divine in each of us. yyy
[There is no connection between this and organized religion yy] I am speaking from a strictly spiritual perspective, the perspective that our spirit is consciousness, conscious awareness, and its native energy state is love. yyy
The Sexual Frontier is realizing/discovering:
• Sex can be a lot more then rub, suck, pump, squirt
• Men can have multiple orgasms without an ejaculation which is energizing not energy draining
• That not-thinking sex heightens sensuality and amplifies sexual sensations and arousal
• Not-thinking sex is more fulfilling and very satisfying then thinking /fantasizing during sex [thinking competes with sensuality ]
• Having loving sex and making love does not require romance it is a place you come from rather then something you get from another person
• The not-thinking orgasmic feeling gradually builds over time and is not limited to the few seconds of orgasm that comes with a thinking type ejaculation
• Not-thinking orgasm is the doorway to experiencing deep love that does not require a mate
• Orgasm can also be the gateway to the Divine/Higher power [independent of organized religion]
• Not-thinking sexual energy can be used for healing, creativity and more
• That we are capable and ‘pre-wired’ for a deep spiritual connection
Man people do not realize that their childhood, etc. experiences, traumas and beliefs block their sexual [and life] experiences. Beliefs you have long since forgotten may still be active, acting like plastic shields that keep ou trapped and locked into dysfunctional patterns, habits. Often erectile dysfunction and many other sexual problems are caused by what you are thinking or doing inside our head and/or our beliefs. I am not a doctor I am a Coach, this is not a cure and these methods often disappear problems by removing the source of the problem.
Western sex is primarily focused on ejaculation and erection(s). Tantric or conscious sex is focused on full body sensuality and orgasm without ejaculation and a deep spiritual connection with ourself, our partner and all beings.
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