The purpose of sex is to experience orgasmic rejuvenation and satisfaction through intimate sensual sexual contact

I. SEX COACHING [nude optional]

Allowing, accepting thoughts about sex (your body or you) that are judgmental, guilty, or shame blocks aliveness, life energy, is very unhealthy, disheartening and can even hasten death or disease.

Shame around being gay or having gay sex often blocks us from seeking help or even admitting to ourselves there is a problem. The SHAME IS THE PROBLEM NOT GAY SEX or difficulties with sex. Shame, guilt, etc is usually the problem that is blocking great sex or even desiring sex.

WHAT HAPPENS IN A SEX COACHING SESSION
(nude optional)

The process begins with

• The coach explaining the confidentially and non-judgmental nature of the coaching space which is a non-confrontational, interactive conversation

• The client talking about his issue(s), intention for the work or simply what isn't working or sexual problems.

• We examine and rebuild if necessary the framework that creates your will power which is your self-acceptance, self-worth and self-love

• Then we search for blocks such as events in your childhood that were sexual and also shameful, judgmental or have guilt associated with them.

• Delving deeply into these we reconstruct the key events to see what decisions and beliefs were created

• Then we determine if these beliefs are still active and/or how they are affecting your sex life now

• We discuss the purpose of sex, looking at how you want to integrate it into your life. Noticing that sexual energy and life energy are the same and that we are born out of sexuality, and it is a natural and intrinsic part of life, human or otherwise

• An overview of western ejaculation sex, Tantric sex, and spiritual sexuality

• Some situations may require additional methods to assist the client in becoming comfortable dating, being nude, or sexual.

• When appropriate techniques are discussed or practiced.

• This is not massage and there is no actual sex between the client and the coach.

SEX MAY REDUCE PAIN: the chemical oxytocin is released from the brain during orgasm, and this in turn seems to release endorphins into the body. Endorphins are the body's natural painkillers.

SEX MAY DECREASE THE INCIDENCE OF PROSTATE CANCER: A study published in the British Journal of Urology in 2003 found that men in their 20's could reduce their chances of prostate cancer by ejaculating more then fie times a week.

SEX MAY PREVENT ILLNESSES SUCH AS COLDS AND FLUS: A 1999 study at Wilkes University in Pennsylvania found that people who have sex one or two times a week had higher levels of immunoglobulin A, the immune cell protein that protects against viral illnesses.

SEX PROLONGS LIFE: A 1997 studyfrom the British Medical Journal followed 1,000 men over 10 years and found that men who had a higher frequency of orgasm had half the death rate of those with fewer orgasms.

SEX BURNS CALORIES: Perhaps 200 calories.

SEX GIVE MUSCLES A WORKOUT: Muscles in the pelvic floor (the ones that help bladder control) are strengthened during sex. Muscles in the back, thighs, glutes, abs, and arms can get a workout. That's great, you may say, but if you're older now, and your sex drive has tanked a bit, remember --- intention is the most powerful force when you want to bring something into your life.

ANYBODY CAN ENJOY

GREAT SEX

• IF YOU ARE NOT ENJOYING SEX

• IF SEX IS MISSING FROM YOUR LIFE

• IF SEX IS NOT SATISFYING OR FULFILLING

• IF SEX JUST ISN'T WORKING FOR YOU...

Our sexual energy drives everything we do: work, friendship, money, confidence, happiness, which is why we must learn to embrace it, Love it, respect it and harness it. It is not just for the bedroom.